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| Dear Sun,
Even though you may not be gay, please come out today. And tomorrow and the day after. You can go back to the closet on Monday because it's Mr. Rain's time.
My friends and I are off to the beach today and will stay there till Sunday, so please consider my plea. :)
Love, AJ
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| Today I yelled at a group of people in the elevator:
"Are you gonna fucking go out or not? P.I."
A group of people from one call center in the same building as ours took that from me. They seriously need to learn elevator etiquette. The moment they stepped into the elevator, my ears started to heat up and I was beginning to fume with anger.
How could I not? Most of them (about 10 or so people) were talking on top of their lungs - everyone at the same time. I decided to just let it pass and not let their noise ruin the rest of my day.
When the elevator stopped on the smoking floor (our - my colleague Will and I - stop), the noisy un-cultured people with no sense of elevator etiquette and breeding - were blocking our way out of the elevator.
We made several attempts at calling their attention and telling them to let us through, but they were all too engrossed in conversation about whether they should get off on that floor or the ground floor.
The elevator doors were almost closing and I was already so annoyed and mad that I wasn't able to help myself from yelling at them:
"Are you gonna fucking go out or not?"
Like the Red Sea, they parted and made a way for us. I was so pissed and I wanted to give them a lecture on elevator etiquette and etiquette in general. But all I could muster was:
"Put*ng ***"
That felt good. I may have lost my "breeding" and "culture" after screaming at them, but I don't care.
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| The film many have been waiting for is here! Raquela is a transsexual - or ladyboy - from the Philippines who dreams of escaping the streets of Cebu City for a fairy tale life in Paris. In order to make her dreams come true, she turns from prostitution toward the more lucrative business of Internet porn. Her success as a porn star brings new friends, including Valerie, a ladyboy in Iceland, and Michael, the owner of the website Raquela works for. Valerie helps Raquela get as far as Iceland. From there, Michael offers her a rendezvous in Paris. Will Paris be everything she dreamed of? And will Michael turn out to be her Prince Charming? The Amazing Truth About Queen Raquela stars Raquela Rios, Brax Villa, Olivia Galudois and is directed by Olaf Johannesson and produced by Arleen Cuevas, Olaf Johannesson , Stefan Schaeffer, Helgi Sverisson. Cinematography is by Butch Maddul. Shot in Cebu, Philippines, Iceland, France, U.S.A. Cebuano with English Subtitles "The Amazing Truth about Queen Raquela" Opens April 11 (Saturday), exclusively at Robinson's Galleria, Ortigas, PhilippinesWinner! Best Feature Film, Teddy Awards, Berlin Film Festival, Germany Grand Jury Prize, Cinemanila Film Festival, Philippines Best Feature Fiction, Zinegoak Film Festival, Spain Best International Feature, New York LGBT Film Festival, USA Showtime Vanguard Award, New York LGBT Film Festival, USA Jury Award, Cinema City, Serbia Find more info about the film! http://www.queenraquelathemovie.com/http://www.queenraquela.com | |
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| "Bakla Ako, May Reklamo?" (and most of the other blogs under The Bakla Blogs Network) was inaccessible in the past few weeks. We have had some problems with our server and I was sick, so that was just too much for me to handle. I was down with the flu for more than week, but now I'm feeling better. And as if they're completely connected, my blogs were also down. I noticed this last week and the previous times (like months ago) when Bakla Ako was also down while I was sick. We apologize for the inconvenience this caused (in whatever way possible), and we thank you all for your continued support! Mabuhay ang mga bakla! | |
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| Figure of speech ang kanyang ginawa eh. Bilang fashion designer, artist nga, ay minsan ay nagkakaroon ng mga creative outburst dahil na rin siguro sa pagod na nafi-feel niya ng mga panahon na iyon, Ricky Rivera, the designers spokesman, told ABS-CBNs morning show, Umagang Kay Ganda. - full story via ABS-CBN News
Creative outburst my ass! I wonder why only a few people have come up and used this excuse. Seriously, you can use "creative outburst" to justify anything you do - right or wrong. So release your inner Boyet Fajardo and use your creative outburst! Let's see how we can use creative outburst: - Manny Pacquiao had a CREATIVE OUTBURST when he awarded ABS-CBN with the airing rights to his fight, causing another round of network wars. Then taking it back and saying he's sorry. Creative Outburst!
- Marian Rivera in her infamous pagwawala video. Creative Outburst lang yon.
- Bayani Agbayani also had a CREATIVE OUTBURST when he made wala at The Fort.
- Malu Fernandez. Need I say more? CREATIVE OUTBURST!
- Philip Salvador when he made upak that bus driver, CREATIVE OUTBURST!
- DJ Montano. CREATIVE OUTBURST?
- Chikatime, CREATIVE OUTBURST!
- Chris Brown had lots and lots of CREATIVE OUTBURST when he beat up Rihanna.
- Christian Bale's was an Imported CREATIVE OUTBURST! (courtesy of Joel McVie)
See, everything can be resolved and can be made takip by using CREATIVE OUTBURST! So what's your excuse? What's your CREATIVE OUTBURST?I just thought of a contest!Why don't you send in your MOST CREATIVE OUTBURST a la Boyet Fajardo? It can be your own, a celebrity's your friend's or anyone you know (or don't know) Leave a comment here and win a prize from me! The MOST CREATIVE OUTBURST comment will receive a... (I'm still thinking what to give. lol)!Entries (post here as a comment) will be accepted until April 3! | |
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| So we're nominated for the Rainbow Bloggers Philippines' Rainbow Blog of the Week. Now on its fifth week, the RBP's Rainbow Blog of the Week is " the most anticipated competition in the world of blogging parrots."
Links of Nominees (Week 5)
This week is a fierce competition and I'm actually not expecting to win since I'm up against very prolific and well-known bloggers. There's my friend The Bakla Review, The (HOT) Vegan Prince, and Lezfriendly. So I will not be campaigning and asking you to support Bakla Ako, May Reklamo, I'll leave it up to you. Besides, I myself can't even decide who to vote for. Charing.  One thing I can say though is that I'm quite happy with how the Rainbow Bloggers Philippines is turning out. Kudos to the original parrots who came up with this idea. Also, the current influx of members and readers is a good sign that we can make it happen! I have high hopes that for this year's Pride March, we will have a better (read: more people in the contingent) representation under the Rainbow Bloggers and Friends Banner! Now that we have more members and more people know about us, we can definitely be there and join the Pride March in December! For those of you who are interested, you can still volunteer to become a member of Task Force Pride ( click here to view registration/volunteer form). The 2nd General Assembly is set for Saturday, March 28, 2009 from 7PM to 9PM at BED Bar, Malate. You can also bring your friends who are part of the LGBT Community or are LGBT Friendly who would like to help us plan for the 2009 Manila Pride March. To find out more about Task Force Pride, visit the official page here. Technorati Tags: manila pride march 2009, rainbow bloggers philippines, Task Force Pride | |
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| The two Davids of American Idol's Season 7 - David Cook and David Archuleta will be performing LIVE in Manila on May 16 at the SM Mall of Asia Open Grounds! It looks like Jomari Yllana's production firm was successful in making this happen. OMG! As in OMG! I wanna see David Cook. And well, ok, Archie too. Here are the video invites from the two Davids: Archuleta:
Cook:
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| Guys4men has finally merged with PlanetRomeo and there are mixed reactions from the users of what used to be guys4men. I have, however, seen more dissonance than appreciation of this change. And I can relate to many of those who think that selling merging guys4men with PlanetRomeo was a bad idea. Long before this merger, I already had accounts with both g4m and planetromeo/gayromeo so I'm already used to the interfaces and platforms of both networks. Honestly though, I still prefer the old guys4men interface. Prior to the merge, Guys4men was the premier social networking site for gay men in the Philippines. But now, I'm not sure if the users are all too happy about Planetromeo.
What do you Think?
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There are quite a number of reasons why users of guys4men are not so amenable to this change, so let me name some of them based on my own observations: - Interface
The old guys4men was simple, neat and very user-friendly. While it is true that is may be difficult to deal with a change like this; switching from clean and white to a sort of cluttered blue, black and yellow and orange may take a LOT of getting used to. PlanetRomeo's interface is actually customizable to suit one's needs. But if you're already used to seeing the plain white and clean g4m interface, you wouldn't really appreciate going through leaps and bounds just to make the page feel like "home". - Chat
Guys4Men chat is probably one of the most missed functionalities of the site. The webcam chat application (powered by Userplane) was almost always full (and with many Pinoys) reaching points of more than 300 concurrent users (Lobby 1, Lobby 2, Lobby 3, and other rooms being occupied simultaenously). The interaction was live and real and more. Guys in various states of undress, dress, and duress! (the room is still accessible though, if you have the correct link - check your browser's history) - Forums
The guys4men forums is perhaps the most missed among all the features of 4m. It was were users could discuss anything and everything under the gay and not-so-gay sun! Threads and threads of GA (Guy Above - Is GA top, bottom, versa, versabottom, power bottom, power top?), clan meet-ups, movie discussions, sex and health, parties, friendships, etc. - all down the drain as PlanetRomeo does not really have forums (they have clubs, but uhm? ok).
I'm sure there are more reasons aside from the ones I mentioned above. Then again, people still have their own choice: stay or go. If they're willing to embrace change and forget about the old guys4men, then they can stay. If they aren't then they can go. Besides, there's always Pinoyg4m (I highly reccommend this site ! Will post about them soon), Downelink, Manjam, Gay.com, Gaydar, Dlist, DestinationMale, Connexion, Manhunt, DudesNude Fridae and a whole lot more!So is this an end of an era?
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New Arrivals for March and April from one of my favorite stores: David & Goliath. David and Goliath Stores: Bonifacio High Street, Power Plant, TriNoma, Greenbelt 5, Robinsons Place Manila Midtown, Rustans Makati. | |
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I started noticing a lot of people posting their NoH8 photos on Tumblrearlier today. So what I did was to reblog all NoH8 photos I saw on Tumblr. And I did that through the new Tumblr blog I created: The NoH8 Project on Tumblr. And boy are Tumblrs fast! The blog now has a total of 37 Tumblr followers and we have been receiving quite a number of contributions. Thank you! And even though I am not from California (Im not even in the United States - Im in the Philippines, and Im not even American!), I believe in this campaign. I have been following news and updates about Prop8 for as long as I can remember. I believe in a cause like this. I believe that no matter where you are in the world, no matter what race, color, religion, or sexual orientation you have, hate (H8) is never a good thing. The predominantly Catholic nation of the Philippines is still worlds away from gay marriage or marriage equality, but it does not mean that the LGBT Community and our friends here do not have something to fight for. Believe it or not, we still do not have laws that protect the basic rights of members of the LGBT community. What we are fighting for now is the enactment of the Anti-Discrimination Bill, which has been a bill for almost a decade now. I believe that a campaign similar to NoH8 can be done here and I really hope we can do something to further our cause and our call for EQUAL (not special) rights. So to all those who followed the NoH8 Tumblr Project and those who have contributed, Thank you! Contributions may be sent through: noh8@baklaako.com | |
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| The 22nd Singapore International Film Festival will take place on April 14 to April 19, 2009 and a few Filipino films will be featured: Aureus Solitos Boy, Francis Xavier Pasions Jay, Roxlees Cesar Asar and Lav Diazs Melancholia. BOY (Producer: Auraeus Solito, Endi Hai Balbuena, Screenplay: Jimmy Flores, Arturo Calo, Cast: Aeious Asin, Aries Pena, Madelaine Nicolas. Schedule: 19th Apr, 11:30am and 24th Apr, 7:15pm at The Substation) Boy is a coming-of-age story about a boy who falls in love with a macho dancer: A young budding poet, who is unnamed, observes lip-synching drag-queens and dancing rent-boys in a gay bar one evening and finds himself attracted to Aries, who comes from a poorer part of town. Selling his action heroes and comic books so as to be able to afford Aries for one night, he buys Aries at the bar and brings him home for the new year. Sparks fly while celebratory fireworks go off outside the house and the boys forge a fragile connection that neither of them is certain will last. This is an idealistic, coming-of-age tale of a sensitive boy who arrives at his first lesson about love and who learns to grow confidently into his own sexuality. Boy is a finalist for the Asian Feature Film Competition. Cinema Today is a section of the festival about films of today that will become tomorrows classics. From drama to comedy to documentaries, presenting the realities of today in this scope of films by some of the most watched filmmakers. The following Filipino films are featured: Jay(Producer: Francis Xavier Pasion, Ronald Mangubat, Screenplay: Francis Xavier Pasion, Cast: Baron Geisler, Coco Martin, Flor Salanga schedule: 16th Apr, 9:15pm at the National Museum of Singapore) Television reality and real-life blur in the making of a sensationalist documentary about an anti-gay sex-crime.
Jay, a gay schoolteacher, is stabbed in an apparent sex-crime. But this is not what this film is about. Even before his family hears about the death, another Jay, a conniving TV producer, moves inside the family house with his crew to document their reactions. This new Jay convinces the family to let them shoot the dead mans wake and funeral for a reality show, even up till the moment when the murderer is found. The plan goes so well that even the grieving mother is willing to redo the scene when she first confronts her sons corpse. Director Francis Xavier Pasion explodes the gap between onscreen reality and real-life in this debut feature, which critiques sensationalist journalism by revealing what is entailed in the making of a documentary. The truth is never quite what it seems. Jay took the Best Film and Best Actor prizes at the Cinemalaya Film Festival. Cesar Asar(Producer: Roxlee, Mon Lee, Screenplay: Mon Lee, Cast: Jorge Caudilla, Fourth Lee, Mon Lee schedule: 16th Apr, 9:15pm at The Substation) Cesar and dim-witted George are best friends who manage to survive in the throes of poverty in this offbeat comedy.
George Boy was born late, hence he is slow in the head. Because he is the only student left in his class after no one can afford to go to school, he is named valedictorian. His uncle, who bullies him into singing a song about Kangkong in an International Language (ie. English), is striving to be an attorney. Cesar Asar is Georges best friend whose parents are working as illegal immigrants in the States. Cesar cracks jokes about how supermarkets vendors hands get swollen from changing the price tags on food products due to continual inflation, while George Boy soon disappears illegally to Saudi to find work and help his uncle. This surreal and self-mocking film pokes cruel fun at an aspect of the Philippines that has failed to rise above its poverty. Imagine is another section of the festival: Step into this section if you want to experience the possibilities of cinema. Thought provoking, surrealistic and genre-defying, the eight films presented is an invitation to adventurous cineasts to discover the new frontiers of cinema. Melancholia by Lav Diaz is one of the featured films. Melancholia(Producer: Kristine Kintana, Screenplay: Lav Diaz, Cast: Angeli Bayani, Perry Dizon, Roeder Camanag, Raul Arellano schedule: 18th Apr, 2:00pm at the Goethe-Institut free screening) The great independent auteur Lav Diazs latest epic explores the devastating emotional consequences of political oppression in the Philippines.
A film made up of three distinct movements. In the first part, three alienated characters a prostitute, a pimp and a nun, reveal that they arent who they appear to be in the provincial town of Sagada. The burden of their role-playing can only lead to madness. The second chapter takes place in Manila, where two survivors from Sagada try to pick up the pieces of their lives with mixed results. In the final section, we are plunged back in time to the jungle, with three leftist guerrillas scrambling to escape government troops. Like all of Diazs films, life unfolds in real-time, but the details are rarely banal - every moment counts, the atmosphere is hypnotic and the images often breathtaking. The space he gives his characters (and performers) gradually accumulates into powerful sense of a national tragedy. The Singapore International Film Festival is the largest international film festival in Singapore. it has become significant in the Singapore arts landscape because of its dynamic film programming and commitment to the development of film culture and local cinema. The Festival screens over 200 films annually of all genres, with a focus on groundbreaking Asian cinema. Under the umbrella of the Silver Screen Awards, SIFF recognizes excellence in Asian cinema with its 3 awards categories Asian Film Competition, Singapore Short Film Competition and the Singapore Film Awards introduced in 2009. Read more about it on the 22nd Singapore International Film Festival website. Technorati Tags: Singapore International Film Fesyival, lav diaz, melancholia, Jay, aureus solito, francis xavier pasion, boy, filipino films, gay films, cesar asar, roxlee | |
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| - I'm Feeling...:accomplished

Ever since I discovered the Internet (more than a decade ago), I have been hooked to it. I could never live a day without being online - even if I didn't really have anything important to go online for. I realized that the addiction was real just like my addiction to cigarettes. Then lately, I found myself busy reading books. It's such a nice feeling to be able to read books (and actually finish them) again. And in a way, it cured a little bit of my addiction. Now, whenever I go online, all I do is prioritize the important stuff. Once I'm done with those, I browse here and there a little, then log off. And whenever I'm bored at home, instead of going online, I pick up a book and read until I fall asleep! There is a cure to Internet addiciton! (at least for now) | |
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| I have always wanted a tour of Binondo, but I wanted it to be with people I know and people who are special. And last Saturday, I got more than just a tour of this wonderful part of the metro, I got to tour it with some of the fabulous gay bloggers in the Philippines! Here are some photos:  Pangarap na Bituin More hereRELATED POSTS: MISTERHEUGELOBSTER TONYMANILA GAY GUYJAMIE DA VINCI | |
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| Around this time last year, five bloggers were given a makeover by Regine's Salon. A video was supposed to be produced but due to unforeseen circumstances, it got delayed... for a year! Now thanks to the video blogger extrordinaire Coy (and the rest of the gang), that video is now available online! Coy, Kring, Poyt, Joe and I were treated to stylish makeovers by Regine's Salon after they saw our We Love Trinoma video (which won Best Single Video/Podcast at the Philippine Blog Awards last year. Something is about to change. That change has happened and the proof is here (after the jump): Jump! Circa 2008: Pinoy Vloggers Makeover! from Coy Caballes on Vimeo.Special Thanks to Juned Sonido and Karlo PinoyBlogero for the camera work! And super special thanks to Regine's Salon for the makeovers! REGINEs SALON at the THE LINK (new ANSON arcade) beside Makati Shangrila, The newest building between LANDMARK and MAKATI SHANGRILA Hotel REGINES SALON 2nd Floor Site A Building MAKATI AVENUE CORNER NORTH DRIVE Tel numbers : 856.17.23 or 856.17.24 Cell : 0916-744.32.99 or 0922-852.05.29 | |
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