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If an afam asked you to leave your job, marry him and relocate to his home country, would you consider the offer?
Their Two Cents 
10th-Aug-2006 07:05 pm (UTC)
as long as his face is worth the citizenship :)
10th-Aug-2006 07:08 pm (UTC)
so fuckin damn worth it. more than just the citizenship man!
10th-Aug-2006 08:07 pm (UTC)
it would depend on how long he knows the guy, regardless of the nationality or the person, agam or otherwise.

relocating for "love" or whatever is a very big decision whether it's to move to another city or to another country. if the person asked really felt that the relationship had reached that level of commitment, then sure why not?

if it's a bit of a whim and they don't truly know one another, it's better to be safe and say no rather than getting left high and dry in a foreign land.
10th-Aug-2006 10:10 pm (UTC)
knowing myself, i'd like to take that chance. who knows how fun it would be to be left high and dry in a foreign land with lots of yummy men!
10th-Aug-2006 08:24 pm (UTC)
what if he was the one who left his home country to be with you? i dont think it's any different. scot and i are making it work.

besides, i want to be able to have a place when i visit denmark! :P
10th-Aug-2006 10:06 pm (UTC)
true! for that, let's go grab danish pastries!
10th-Aug-2006 10:07 pm (UTC)
im happy with my cafe americano :P
10th-Aug-2006 10:10 pm (UTC)
i'm happy for your too. i'd like cherries on my pastry!
14th-Aug-2006 10:58 pm (UTC) - Relocation... for Love?
Someone...
I was once asked by a caucasian Neil Foreman, a big boss of a ceratin make up line base in japan to settle with him in his country but i denied that big offer because of uncertainties. I am not sure if he is really that damn serious about it. Though he fleis back and port to Manila-japan-Canada just to visit me but three days a month being with him for 6 consecutive months is never enough to come with this big decision- to settle with him in his place. Though i guess, i should have tried that for a cool fun adventure or say, a big oppoturnity but because of the uncertainties in mind, i denied the offer. I never regret the decision i made though because i just did the right thing. atleast i am safe now and living the life i ever dreamed of with somebody else who is always beside me.. hehehe cheers everyone!!! jhaye
15th-Aug-2006 07:41 pm (UTC) - Re: Relocation... for Love?
good for you then. :)
10th-Aug-2006 09:55 pm (UTC)
Why not? For more spur of the moment like Koala leveling! Gorahin mo na! madalang lang yan!
10th-Aug-2006 10:08 pm (UTC)
true! minsan minsanan lang tong afamacious cultures! for that, i will file for a month's worth of vacation leaves and text kaka from denmark that i wont be back!
10th-Aug-2006 10:52 pm (UTC)
being housewife is the best possible job in the inuverse. LOndon only needs you to be resident for 2 years tobeome a citizen and spain one year. tapos divorse na!!!! wheeeeeeee.
10th-Aug-2006 10:56 pm (UTC)
hmmm. now there's a thought.

actually dream ko maging trophy wife. hindi talaga housewife kase dapat may mga muchahas to clean up after my mess. so ill just stay home, go shopping, travel the world, and have the time of my life!
10th-Aug-2006 10:58 pm (UTC)
housewife as in desperate type as in eva langordia(sp?) with gardener boytoy type ofcourse. Then divorce his ass after the citizenship. Canadia needs two years din.
10th-Aug-2006 11:03 pm (UTC)
exactly! eva longoria's Gabriel Solis character. im not planning on divorcing pa naman. kase mukhang loveable naman ito! echos! im not after the money or the citizenship. echoz ulit.

hmmm... are there lots of canadians in canadia?
10th-Aug-2006 11:18 pm (UTC)
love-able naman pala eh, so why ask with these parameters? Love is a reason in its own.

Canadians come from canadia; canada has canadans. its a little known fact. And everyone gets naked in canadia, even if its too cold in canadia.
10th-Aug-2006 11:56 pm (UTC)
"afam" is also used in Manila? interesting.... it was a term used in Cebu ages ago.

About your post: Yeah, I think I would relocat, if I am sure I would spend the eternity of my life with him.
11th-Aug-2006 12:03 am (UTC)
its been used for the longest time na. parang sa song ni-revive na lang ng mga bading. it's a national term. even when i was in davao, some years back, afam was used rin
11th-Aug-2006 03:36 am (UTC) - Hay Denmark...
I almost left rOckY for a Dane before. Cute kasi eh! Hihihi, I won't blame you. Basta pwedeng bumisita sa mga riverside flats mo sa Äàrhus or sa Copenhagen pasok!!!! Paringn nga ng pic.
11th-Aug-2006 03:46 am (UTC) - Re: Hay Denmark...
surely. nyarx baka same guy ito! hahaha ill send you pics through ym
11th-Aug-2006 03:38 am (UTC)
Depends if the place to be relocated has legalized same sex unions.
11th-Aug-2006 03:45 am (UTC)
yes they have legalized REGISTERED PARTNERSHIP
11th-Aug-2006 06:34 am (UTC)
OMG AJ. Is this Danish guy the hot porn supplier you've been telling me about?
11th-Aug-2006 06:38 am (UTC)
actually no! it's someone else. hotter! as in really HOT!
11th-Aug-2006 08:37 am (UTC)
ahahaha..

i guess i would..

it all depends on the offers..

hehehe...
11th-Aug-2006 03:34 pm (UTC)
the offer: spend your lifetime with him
what comes with it: leaving your job and your family and friends, leaving your comfort zone, a great house in a country with great people, a great life.

ako i would! echozness
11th-Aug-2006 05:39 pm (UTC) - afam?
I read through all the comments but I still cant figure out what "afam" stands for. I probably sound like a complete idiot but I've never heard that term before (I live in Los Angeles). The closest to that term that I can think of is an abbreviation of African American. Am I right or am I really just stupid?
11th-Aug-2006 06:14 pm (UTC) - Re: afam?
afam = a foreigner around manila... :)
so if its a foreigner around clark = afac!
11th-Aug-2006 07:28 pm (UTC)
"the offer: spend your lifetime with him
what comes with it: leaving your job and your family and friends, leaving your comfort zone, a great house in a country with great people, a great life.

ako i would! echozness"

hmm.

so i take it na papatulan mo na? o nag-aatubili ka pa?

what's stopping you?
11th-Aug-2006 08:13 pm (UTC)
ill find out next week. hehehe. pero IF he turns out to be sincere about it, i would
11th-Aug-2006 07:39 pm (UTC)
at wala bang pic dyan??? pa-sight namanchi
11th-Aug-2006 08:13 pm (UTC)
punta ka here sa station ko pag nakabreak ka. pakita ko sayo. :)

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